I know that you are done w/ each one of them. I know that you are done being the only one trying to mk efforts. I know that you are done swimming oceans for them when they wont even cross bridges for you. I know that you are done doing everythng, thinking that “someone gotta do it frst na .. if both of you will think ‘why shud i go first’ then the relation (either friendship or relationship) won’t work. I know that you are done w/ always being the only one tht understands n adjusts. I know that you are done thinking about them before your own self. I know that you are done w/ putting yourself last every single time. I know that you are done w/ everything and everyone.
So now stepping into this new decade.. why dont you change things a lil bit for them. As in tell them that now its your turn to make efforts. Tell them that, “From now on If you wanna stay in touch then show n act like that. From now on i will only reciprocate the energy tht i get from you. You call, I call. You text, I text. You make efforts, I make efforts. You care, I care. You show up for me, I show up for you. You post pictures, I post pictures. You wish me, I wish you. You send me paragraphs, I send you paragraphs. You show me off to your frnds, I show you off to my frnds. You make time for me, I make time for you. You call me best friend, I call you best friend. You love me, I love you. You trust me, I respect that. You show attitude, I’ll behave as if u dont exist.”
From now on.. LET THEM BE FIRST .. and you reciprocate the same efforts and energy that you get from them.
And you will realise how many real ones you have .. and how many of them just benefitted from your lack of boundaries. The real ones who cares for you will respect your boundaries and will make efforts to stay in touch.
Let go of the ones who dont deserve a pure soul like you. You deserve some real people in your life.