I know that you are done w/ them.

I know that you are done w/ each one of them. I know that you are done being the only one trying to mk efforts. I know that you are done swimming oceans for them when they wont even cross bridges for you. I know that you are done doing everythng, thinking that “someone gotta do it frst na .. if both of you will think ‘why shud i go first’ then the relation (either friendship or relationship) won’t work. I know that you are done w/ always being the only one tht understands n adjusts. I know that you are done thinking about them before your own self. I know that you are done w/  putting yourself last every single time. I know that you are done w/ everything and everyone.

So now stepping into this new decade.. why dont you change things a lil bit for them. As in tell them that now its your turn to make efforts. Tell them that, “From now on If you wanna stay in touch then show n act like that. From now on i will only reciprocate the energy tht i get from you. You call, I call. You text, I text. You make efforts, I make efforts. You care, I care. You show up for me, I show up for you. You post pictures, I post pictures. You wish me, I wish you. You send me paragraphs, I send you paragraphs. YouΒ  show me off to your frnds, I show you off to my frnds. You make time for me, I make time for you. You call me best friend, I call you best friend. You love me, I love you. You trust me, I respect that. You show attitude, I’ll behave as if u dont exist.”
From now on.. LET THEM BE FIRST .. and you reciprocate the same efforts and energy that you get from them.
And you will realise how many real ones you have .. and how many of them just benefitted from your lack of boundaries. The real ones who cares for you will respect your boundaries and will make efforts to stay in touch.
Let go of the ones who dont deserve a pure soul like you. You deserve some real people in your life.
Okay.?

31 thoughts on “I know that you are done w/ them.

    1. Yess nd I’ll keep repeating myself .. till the day when u will refuse to accept anything less than you deserve ..!!
      Thankyou so much for your kind words Bunny. M honoured !! πŸ₯ΊπŸ’œ

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  1. Precious things like you,deserves the world. Bur unfortunately,you never got what you deserve. Now ,I feel like you never needed the excess crap in your life,because with them or without them,you’d still be the same Precious.πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

    We all think that compromises are needed for any kind of friendship and relationship. But ,along that line of adjustment we forget our limits. It should be mutual or else it’s just toxic.

    Something gotta give
    Something gotta take.

    I m proud of my girl,for always coming up with such self loving and nurturing write ups.
    Love you precious.πŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œπŸ’œ

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  2. I totally agree with you that having standards is so important to live a happy, healthy life. We deserve the love that we put into the world. We deserve to be treated well and with respect! β™₯️

    Have a wonderful day love! Xx

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    1. Yess apsolutely !! You got it right Vihani!! We gotta refuse to accept anything less than we deserve .. we are worth the effort !! ..πŸ’œ

      Hope you are having an amazing day 🌺

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    1. And thats okayyy !!! Change is a gradual process Adithya !! You can’t expect for you to gt completely changed in just one day or one month.. It takes time .. and it varies from individual to individual.. you cnt expect yourself to leave your habits just like that .. bcoz all these years ,, you have been a human who loves deeply and who cares .. so how can you expect yourself to all of a sudden behave in a cold hearted manner..

      But there is one thing that you can do.. and that is to celebrate those small small changes .. when you try to put yourself first .. When you take that small step for yourself ..

      Dont be so hard on yourself ..
      Take your time.. .
      Love love πŸ’œ

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  3. Yes really very true πŸ’―…its better for ourself to be with few real one than to be with so many people , and we should try to be like a Mirror (clear and real) so that everyone can see the reflection and we will also have some identity.
    You really write AwesomeπŸ‘Œ

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    1. Wowwwww VMS !! πŸ”₯ ..
      And yess you are apsolutely correct!!

      Thankyou so very much fr putting ur time here n read it !! M really grateful to you !! You always encourage me so much !! Thankyouu πŸ’œ

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  4. Wow! I really missed you Sheetal! Don’t go MIA like that again!
    In a sense, I feel like I really needed to read something like this…. I’m surrounded by lots of fake people who only consume my inputs of effort! Perhaps it really is time to let go and only appeal to reciprocity…

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    1. U just made my day πŸ₯Ί.. I missed you too ..!!
      I’ll try my best …
      M so so so happyy tht you commented ..!! I was actually waiting for you to read this ..
      Thankyouuu sooo muchh for this warm welcome πŸ₯Ί.. M glad tht someone missed me here… Sending u lots of good wishes Phaneul..
      thankyou πŸ’œ

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  5. Was listening to Rihanna’s song ‘fake love’ moments before I read this. I love and absolutely agree with everything you’ve written here.
    We need to be bold about decisions like this… where we make it known that we’ll not always the minority in a relationship before things fall in place because we all deserve a real and mutual love for relationships to work best.
    Love your writing β€πŸ’―

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    1. Thankyou so much Joel .. for taking time to read and also to give ur views on it too … I highly appreciate that… And u said it just right!! We gotta make ourselves a priority and not settle for anythng less than we deserve … Thankyou so much for the appreciation .. πŸ’œ

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