Forgive yourself.

Whenever you do something wrong, you lie to someone, hurt somebody, say or do something that break someone’s heart, or you do anything that is wrong in some way. You always criticise yourself so much.

But at the same time, if your best friend, your partner, your family member or anyone who is close to you, do that very same thing, you always console them, say kind words to them & tell them that “it’s not that bad” or ” it was just a mistake” or “it’ll be okay” … Even if you know that they did something terrible but still you will first make sure that they’re not blaming themselves.

So, why can’t you do that for yourself? Why can’t you say those kind words to yourself? Why can’t you forgive yourself?

Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love . Because whenever you say that “Oh! M so stupid” or “I know m an idiot” , even if as a joke, our mind believes it. Our subconscious mind can’t differentiate when we are saying these things as a joke or when not.

You are a human and you are suppose to make mistakes but don’t beat yourself up for making one. Forgive yourself.

Forgive yourself for accepting less than you deserve. Forgive yourself for never being able to love in halves. Forgive yourself for hoping, for having faith in the softness of love & how it could prevail. Forgive yourself for trying, for believing ruthlessly that “I love you” meant “I’ll stay”. Forgive yourself for the people who walked away. For the ones who didn’t fight, for the ones who made you feel like you were not worthy of being loved the way you loved others. For letting them take so much of you. Forgive yourself for loving too deeply. Forgive yourself for caring too much. Forgive yourself for doing soo much for people that don’t reciprocate even 2% of what you did. Forgive yourself for making that same Maths mistake again and again. Forgive yourself for hurting your parents because you were hurt too. Forgive yourself for not making yourself a priority all these times. Forgive yourself for not taking care of your mental health. Forgive yourself for keeping your mouth shut when you should have screamed your heart out. Forgive yourself for everything.

Today, I want you to forgive yourself for everything that you blame yourself for.

It was never your fault. It was never your fault. πŸ’œ

#zerotoheto #selflove #selfforgiveness #selfcare #healing #emotions #feelings #love #care

76 thoughts on “Forgive yourself.

  1. Thanks for this! I am constantly having to remind myself that my pain is not my own fault and while I cannot forgive the person who hurt me, I can forgive myself for being hurt.

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  2. Yeah, thnx to realise us that self forgiveness is MUST bcoz generally all of us dont do this…nd keep it up sheetal u r doing great πŸ˜‰

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    1. Self forgiveness is one of those thinsg which hold critical part in one’s life..but ironically its one of the things we all forget….it shouldn’t matter what you did,if you feel sorry for your mistakes..and that is enough…but we should not let that guilt haunt us for the rest of our life. We are humans,and we are meant to make mistakes
      …….you wrote awesome girl…thanks for being the flicker in someone’s dark life.
      You are the shining star that guides the lost, in the storm. πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

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      1. Exacttly !! youu got it right !! 🌼
        Thankyou for the positive feedback ishh πŸ’œ
        If only my words could help someone ..✌
        I would be hella happy if I could help atleast one human on their journey of healing.. . πŸ€
        Thankyou for reading πŸ’œ

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  3. Thanks for teaching and inspiring us so much with your beautiful words Sheetal, they are very pure & genuine like your soul. Loved it❀️

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  4. Yes man ..thats all we need ,we need to recognize our self and forgive ourself for everything on which we think its all wrong,if we forgive others why don’t we forgive ourself ….

    Free ourself from all regrets u have and just live ur life more alive..
    Love u dear for such a beautiful concept !!

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    1. thankyou for reading πŸ’œ And for appreciating my thoughts always.. πŸ€
      you pretty soul, love love πŸŒΌπŸ’œ

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  5. You are right !!
    We are always so kind to others & so hard when it comes to our own selves ..
    Thank you for reminding me not to do that .. πŸ™‚
    M waiting eagerly for your next blog now πŸ™‚

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  6. This is such a great concept!!
    I do this so often..
    When I was reading it I felt like someone is saying these things directly to me .. ❣️
    It resonated so we’ll with me sheetal πŸ’“

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  7. Actually ya! You’re right, why forgiving others but never love and care for your own. I kinda relate this to myself. And i love you read this seriously man, everything is just awesome. We need to forgive and just enjoy our lifes not to punish. I personally love this one, and this one is much much more better than the first one, congratulations you’re improvingβ™₯️.(bht bht bht acha hai)β™₯️

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    1. Thankyou lovely πŸ’œ
      M so glad that you could connect to my words πŸ€
      Thankyou for reading πŸ™‚

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  8. You are really very good at writing …..I always appreciate your efforts for motivating others by sharing inspirational thoughts and ideas.
    Stay positive as always .
    “andshewrotewonderful”

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    1. This is literally the best comment till now πŸ’œ
      Thankyou so much for your appreciation … it means a hell lot to me πŸ€
      Thankyou for reading πŸ™‚

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  9. Really yr…… salute to ua words…while reading this….. every single line… pushes my mind to think about it… thnq so mch… πŸ™‚

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    1. Thankyou for the appreciation πŸ€
      M so glad that my words could help you 🌼
      And Thankyou for reading πŸ™‚

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    1. Your welcome … I’m happy that you liked it πŸ˜ƒ
      Let it all go … You deserve to be happy 🌼
      Thankyou for your comment and follow as well πŸ’œ

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  10. Gd job Sheetal❀…..ur words r soo genuine n inspiring…..I’m sure people gonna love ur blogs as they’ll be able to relate themselves with….vry well done…. keep writing n sharingπŸ˜πŸ‘

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    1. Thankyou so very much for your appreciation dii πŸ’œ
      And for your support πŸ˜„
      Thankyou for giving it a chance .. means soo much to me πŸ˜ƒ πŸ’œ

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  11. Healing takes time. And it should, years of self-doubting isn’t easy to erase. But the first and foremost step is acceptance. Acceptance of your flaws and then, believe in yourself. The journey of loving oneself is far more difficult than loving others. It’s time that we get gentler on ourselves because it’s been too long being strong for the world!! Sheetal, you have written amazingly and I hope you keep doing so, maybe today, your writing has made someone feel good about themselves. Go gurrrrlll!!! Proud of you.

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    1. Thankyou soo very much for your kind wordss nannu .. You are such a pretty soul.. You are the one who pushed me to start it … and I can’t thank you enough for doing soo … so coming from you , these words means so much more … !!
      Thankyou for your support !! For your appreciation !! ..
      Thankyou for the positive feedback as well !!! πŸ’œ

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      1. Hey It’s fine. You don’t have to ask for it…just keep on posting and the people who value and understand your content will follow. 😊 Keep interacting ..keep writing…keep posting ! πŸ’™

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      2. I kinda needed to hear this !!
        Thankyou … You are way too kind ..!! πŸ€πŸ’œ

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  12. This is so true! Forgiving others is good but forgiving one self is eternal!
    This is such an awesome post Sheetal! Thank you for sharing your link, I wish you all the very best for your future posts!❀😊

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    1. Thankyou so much for the positive feedback shivani πŸ’œ
      Thankyou for your good wishes πŸ™‚
      And thankyou for reading beautiful 🌼

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  13. Dear you ❀️.. It is just amazing πŸ€—
    Even I can’t explain how beautifullly you express πŸ”₯πŸ”₯
    Every single word of your writing
    God bless you bhaiπŸ˜‡…

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    1. And thats okay because we have been taught to not to take care of our feelings .. so we gotta unlearn that first !! its gonna take time !! But it’ll be worth it . πŸ’œ

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    1. Oh my my !! *did a happy dance alreadyπŸ˜‚πŸ’ƒ* M so so so happy that my words could help .. You deserve a great day on a regular basis love !! Thankyou so much for appreciating so much 😭 .. Your comment made me smile πŸ™ˆ Thankyou πŸ’œ

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  14. I do blame myself a lot. I go hard on myself even for the little things and it gets to a point where i do not see the good in my own self. So yes, I think I’ll forgive myself and move on with life. I have to reach for my inward happiness and potential and not always blame myself without seeing the good. Thank you for this post ❀❀❀

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    1. yess!! Dont blame yourself dear .. we all are human n we are supposed to make mistakes .. u need to forgive yourself too as easily as you forgive your loved ones ..
      Be kind to yourself !! Take care dear πŸ’œ
      Thankyou for reading 🌼

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  15. good advice for encouragement

    but in my case, many atimes it actually WAS my fault – and I knew the results of the choices that I had taken

    cheers!

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    1. Accepting ur mistakes takes guts ..!!
      So m proud of u tht u atleast recognise ur own faults .. n then I just wanna say tht you did wht u did ‘cus it might hv been the only option u had.. nd now u r here .. growing , surviving , living to be a better version of yourself … so forgive yourself now… your soul dont deserve to carry everything … Just forgive yourself ‘cus it will gv u peace 🌼 .. be at peace w/ yourself … keep being YOU πŸ’œ
      Good luck for the future πŸ’œ

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  16. Great and touching article! As I can relate to these kind of topics alot I recently started a blog named searchingforconfidence.wordpress.com, I am very new to blogging and it would mean a lot if you would have a read on my page! KIndest regards

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    1. Hey dear !!
      firstly, m glad that you liked it …Thankyou for your kind visit here ..!!
      And I’ll surely visit ur site… not today but soon … actually there’s alot going on in ny life currently so m maintaining a distance from here … but I’ll visit ur site when I’ll come back .. for sure 🌼..
      Thankyou πŸ’œ
      love love

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