Whenever you do something wrong, you lie to someone, hurt somebody, say or do something that break someone’s heart, or you do anything that is wrong in some way. You always criticise yourself so much.
But at the same time, if your best friend, your partner, your family member or anyone who is close to you, do that very same thing, you always console them, say kind words to them & tell them that “it’s not that bad” or ” it was just a mistake” or “it’ll be okay” … Even if you know that they did something terrible but still you will first make sure that they’re not blaming themselves.
So, why can’t you do that for yourself? Why can’t you say those kind words to yourself? Why can’t you forgive yourself?
Talk to yourself like you would to someone you love . Because whenever you say that “Oh! M so stupid” or “I know m an idiot” , even if as a joke, our mind believes it. Our subconscious mind can’t differentiate when we are saying these things as a joke or when not.
You are a human and you are suppose to make mistakes but don’t beat yourself up for making one. Forgive yourself.
Forgive yourself for accepting less than you deserve. Forgive yourself for never being able to love in halves. Forgive yourself for hoping, for having faith in the softness of love & how it could prevail. Forgive yourself for trying, for believing ruthlessly that “I love you” meant “I’ll stay”. Forgive yourself for the people who walked away. For the ones who didn’t fight, for the ones who made you feel like you were not worthy of being loved the way you loved others. For letting them take so much of you. Forgive yourself for loving too deeply. Forgive yourself for caring too much. Forgive yourself for doing soo much for people that don’t reciprocate even 2% of what you did. Forgive yourself for making that same Maths mistake again and again. Forgive yourself for hurting your parents because you were hurt too. Forgive yourself for not making yourself a priority all these times. Forgive yourself for not taking care of your mental health. Forgive yourself for keeping your mouth shut when you should have screamed your heart out. Forgive yourself for everything.
Today, I want you to forgive yourself for everything that you blame yourself for.
It was never your fault. It was never your fault. 💜
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